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Friday, May 6, 2011

Fawk Your Friday

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Fawk you red dye for being so stainy. Today my son left that rainbow jello stuff. My youngest got into it and this is what happened:



I had to clean that shit up with a spoon first and then clean it for about an hour. Not fun. I lost my chance for some good schooling time.

Fuck my internet connection. It sometimes goes out every other five minutes. This makes it literally impossible to do my daughter's schooling. I'm worried they're gonna kick her out. For the past two or three weeks this has been going on. What the fuck am I paying $50+ for?!

Fuck people on Craigslist who inquire about shit after I already sold it to some game store. I could've gotten double my money, asshole.

Other than that though...I didn't have too bad a week.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Wordless Wednesday -In Honor of Mother's Day

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For Those Who Care

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Guess who's back?!?


Me. Duh. Who else? ^_~ lol j/k.

Yeah, Little Miss Piggy Baby has begun crawling and entertaining herself more frequently. She's self-weaned and when she does want to nurse, it's from a bottle. Which makes me incredibly sad. i wanted to extend breatfeeding beyond a year, but I just don't make enough. I wish I could afford donor milk, but that's not possible right now. But she's still quite the momma's girl and still sleeps with us. Even if she is a bed hog.

However, more time for me, yayyy! Don't get me wrong, I don't regret it or anything. But nine straight months of pure devotion to someone can be mentally taxing.

We just got Bucket a new pet. Hammy the guinea pig. He's just a few weeks old but growing fast. the only reason why we took him was A.) Our friends have been trying to get "rid" of him for a while B.)He came with food, bedding, and a cage and C.) Bucket reeeeeeally wanted a guinea pig. Mostly C though. He was extremely skittish before but not anymore. She's been almost constantly holding him. I'm hoping this will make her more responsible (you know, as a therapy pet). She's responsible for feeding him, making sure he has water, and changing his bedding. She's actually been begging to change his bedding for the past few days (it doesn't need it, yet)!



Dilli fell and busted his head open a few weeks ago.  Got three stitches in his dome piece. He was climbing out of the playpen - after being told not to - and hit his head on the built-in shelving.


It healed quite nicely though...You can hardly see it now.


My husband and I now have to wear glasses. He has astigmatism, I just have a really weak prescription. I'm having a very hard time getting used to them. I can't see through them if there's a glare. And now, I can't stand it when my hair's in my face as opposed to not caring otherwise.



 Oh! And guess what?! Since I have more time for myself now, I have a new hobby!! Acrylic nails and nail design! They never last long on me because I'm too busy with my hands, but I still have fun doing it. So, expect to see some posts about that as well in the near future.

Feels good to be back though!

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Classism at Its Finest

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Apparently Kentucky has passed a law requiring people on Welfare to take annual, random drug tests. This is not one isolated incident of dumb-fuckery. Other states are currently trying to pass into law as well. Michigan had tried it too, but it was stopped by a federal court because it violated the Fourth Amendment.

I've been seeing this status frequently on Facebook:

"Kentucky has just passed a great law. To be eligible for food stamps, medicaid, or cash assistance for your children or yourself, you have to pass a DRUG test. People that work have to take a drug test, so should they! Now every other state should do the same! If you agree re-post."
All over the internet, people are rallying behind this idea, making some of the most ignorant and classist remarks. I am utterly dumb-founded that people are this willing to pass such an invasive law...

Look, I won't deny that this seems like a good idea - because it does. I know there are people out there who have exchanged  food stamps for drugs. This happened more often when they actually gave out stamps, now most areas use a card (except in a few, very rural areas). But, let's be real here, few people (out of the millions of people)  on Welfare are actually that irresponsible. So, why do we want to punish all people on Welfare? This would similar to saying that because a few people rape or murder someone, then everyone should put their DNA or fingerprints on file. I know that sounds a bit on the extreme side, but all I'm saying is
 just because a few dick bags run around acting like an asshole, doesn't mean everyone does. They're only hurting themselves. Let them dig their own grave. But with a bill such as this, it affects all. The law-abiding families who have to take unpaid time off to drive who knows how far to the lab, thereby taking away from their kids (gas money spent that they may have otherwise been used towards something they needed). 

Now, since  the whole "it's my tax payer's dollars" gets everyone's panties tightly knotted, guess who gets to pay for it? And while we're on that subject, why aren't we also testing women on WIC, Medicare, legislators, and any other tax payer funded employee instead of the ultra-poor? This also includes police officers, fire, government, all people who accept medicare (doctors, nurses, dentists), school faculty, the entire board of education, all city workers, waste management, anyone on a construction job that's bid to the city or state, including the utility company employees, highway workers...This list could get really long. And I don't mean just when they're hired; I mean annually.

According to the ACLU, the number of drug-using Welfare recipients is about the same as the general population. 


"Before the Michigan policy was halted, only 10% of recipients tested positive for illicit drugs. Only 3% tested positive for hard drugs, such as cocaine and amphetamines[3]  – rates that are in line with the drug use rates of the general population.[4]" click for source
So, if you (subjectively) want to argue that people on Welfare are more likely to abuse drugs or that this aides in the effort against the war on drugs, well then, maybe we should just start  drug testing everyone then. If you want to argue "If you've got nothing to hide..." well then, what do you have to hide?

All the arguments to support this bill are based on myths and stereotypes. It's classism pure and simple.



I don't understand why other people glamorize living on welfare nor do understand why people would  want   to stay living on welfare for most of their lives. The ones who have another child just to remain on Welfare; the truly lazy ones. I don't know how it is elsewhere, but around here, you  have to have a job or actively be searching (you have to show proof and they will check), or they will enroll you in their employment program. They will only give you actual money for a limited time, and after that's gone, no more for you. Each state has its own limit as to how much a family can receive in food stamps. Medicaid may be free, but the quality of care isn't always great once they know who your insurance provider is. And, recently, Medicaid HMOs and PPOs have begun limiting their services. For one, they don't cover every procedure or prescription (sometimes pre-authorizations aren't even covered). They've decreased the number of visits/services to certain doctors (i.e. dental and optometry). And, even then it's further limited. For example, you can't just go picking whatever glasses you want at your optometrist's; you've got this tiny carousel of cheaply made glasses... And don't go breakin' 'em! You only get one replacement. This isn't so bad for an adult, but this also applies to kids. These are just a couple if changes they've made in an effort to prevent people from abusing the system.  The food stamp money is not enough to live on entirely (which is why you'll see a lot of people on Welfare buying unhealthily - because it's cheap and they're trying to make every last dollar count). It is meant to supplement not to exist. And do you really think they enjoy their every move being judged when people find out they're on welfare? 
And then after this, where do we draw the line? What's next? What about the people who trade their food stamps for money so they can buy gas, pay bills, or basic necessities like diapers, toilet paper, etc? Forced birth control? Can't drive a car over X amount? Restrictions on what they can buy that would bring some happiness into their miserable lives (Have you ever had to tell your child, "No birthday presents/field trip because we had to pay bills..."? I've seen it firsthand...) Because that's where we're headed... And don't think that won't ever happen because it's come pretty close with Issue 5 in Ohio trying to do away with pay day loans. And it passed because people didn't like what other people were doing with their money and they thought they were doing them some good (those companies found a loophole...but that's a whole other tangent).

 
Then there's the whole argument of "I have to take a drug test for work". Really? How many times has your work randomly drug tested you? Do they do it annually? I guarantee that  it happens rarely. Usually, when an employer drug tests it's only during the application process. After that, they may say that they'll randomly test you, but not too many employers actually do (unless, perhaps, you've given them a reason to or you got hurt on the job).

So, honestly, what is the real reason we want to pass these laws? Is it because we (again, subjectively) hate the poor and hate the fact that they get free medical? Because that's what it sounds like to me. All the arguments I've seen supporting this are based on classist stereotypes and assumptions.

We all need to stop worrying so much about what other people are doing with their lives. If you want to help someone, actually get off your ass and help them. If you see someone abusing the system, then report them! There is a telephone number that you can call... Classism is not right and it's not ok. It's fueled by myths, hate, and jealousy. We need to stop this kind of thinking.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

I'm not dead, just sleeping

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Dammit, I had half a post written up and it got deleted. Rabble, rabble, rabble!

Um, anyway... Yeah, after I hooked up Dia's computer to see if I had it all set up just fine, my computer decided it wasn't going to connect to the internet anymore. I had planned on getting a new laptop soon anyway, I just wish it would have held out a little longer. The thing was 15 years old anyway...i think it knew it was going to be replaced...I had a few reviews I wanted to post too that are now stuck on the old hard drive. Pisses me off too.

So  back to phone blogging (phlogging?) for now. Needless to say, if you see any typos or misplaced words, it's unintentional.

Bucket's home schooling has been...coming along... It eats up a lot of my time. While we can get it down to six hours, it usually takes longer. She's "falling behind", especially since I noticed that she's not truly absorbing a lot if th stuff I've been trying to teach her. Just the other day it took around two hours for her to fully learn what an adjective is. Two hours if me constantly repeating and playing an adjective game online. Plus, the learning management system (LMS)  doesn't like to load from time to time. Aaand, it doesn't help anything that she started late, so I've had to go back and search through all of her lessons for her vocabulary words. I'm kicking myself for starting later in the year. In my defense, i didn't know there weren't any buses. At least i know she can continue schooling throughout summer. I can't turn anything in, but I can get all her assignments done and put them in a folder to be submitted once classes resume. Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitching, I love home schooling (even if it is stressful at times with two younger ones). But there are times when I wish she was attending a brick and mortar school. And I know she misses her friends... However, with no transportation and her being a night owl it's what has to be done. I don't think I've ever mentioned this before, but she doesn't fall asleep until about 2 am even though we lay her down every night no later than 9 PM. And should she fall asleep before then, she wakes up and is up until Dog knows when. I have tried speaking with her doctor about it to no avail. It's something she's ALWAYS done, even since birth. I've read that itsa symptom of Asperger's and if she truly does have it like i think she does, then that could be the cause...

Since Bucket wakes up at around noon or one (I wonder what her team years ate gonna be like), I utilize that time to bond with Boots as much as possible. I think the poor boy is sufferin from middle child syndrome as he's been acting up a bit lately. Being loud, not listening, and making a mess mostly. Jus today he spilled salt everywhere while i was baby sitting the washing machine... The other night grew seasoned i leftover hamburger patty with an entire jar of cinnamon. A wannabe chef we've got on or hands. .We mostly just cuddle and watch tv together, and occasionally do some puzzles or play games together if the baby "allows" it. Once it's time for her to start studying, I usually give him something to work on as well.

Her Majesty is growing up way too fast for me. She's now six and a half months and started eating solid food now. I tried delaying giving them to her as long as possible in an effort to avoid any more food allergies in the family and to let her stomach mature. But, she would have it otherwise, and if it were up to her, she would have been eating solids at four months. She's now eating two to three times a day (depending on there cues she gives me). She now has two teeth and i think is working on another set as she's been quite the Bratosaurus. She was learning how to blow raspberries until I showed her how to clap her hands. She's done it a few times on her own but needs help for the most part. She's way too smart, but she does what she wants. Even though she's six and a half months, she still can't sit up on her own. She'll either stiffen up to the point where she's standing or throw herself back and fall laughing and smiling. I'm a little concerned that she's not sitting up yet (my other two were sitting by three or four months), but I think she's going to just skip that milestone and go straight to crawling or walking.

My husband is loving his new job still. He just got certified as a lead specialist, which means that he can legally restore and repair old houses. He's also begun leasing out apartments and has even begun training for managing the apartments next door. I admit, I'm a little concerned about being fucked with should he ever have to evict someone... But it does mean a bigger paycheck and him getting off earlier.

While I want to get back into blogging as much as I was before, that probably won't happen just yet; not until I get my new computer anyway. In the meantime, you can check out my other blog, The Fischers in Pictures. It's just a photo blog which I am re-reopening, and is more family friendly. However, I also hope to have a few reviews and a couple musings as well in the near future, so please keep checking back!

One last thought; if anyone can tell me what my blog post's title is referencing, you not only get 10,000 points, but I will also personally come to your house and hump your leg for five seconds.

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Saturday, November 20, 2010

Saturday Six - 11.20.10

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God, it feels like it's been an eternity since I participated in a Sat Six...Since I only had internet access via smartphone, posting with links was a bit of a pain in the ass and the app I was using didn't like html so the buttons only showed up as  coding, I didn't much feel like participating in too many memes. It's not that I didn't love the hosts' blogs or anything, but, as I mentioned, it was a big pain plus, it took forever to write.....aaaand my husband had my phone most of the time because he needed it for work. ...Bastard.


Mmmkay, I'll shut the hell up now and get to the Saturday Sixin' - brought to you by Boobies, Babies, and a Blog, as well as, The Zombie Housewife.


1.) What is something you do to pamper yourself? What the hell is this "pampering" shit?? Hell, I can't even step out on the porch to smoke a half a cigarette without someone being up my ass about something. And I'm not one for tanning, or getting my nails did, or anything like that. Although, once a year I go and get my hair professionally cut as opposed to having my husband do it. I can't remember the last time I bought a pair of pants. I    don't really do much for myself, except buy some make up every few months. I really need to do more....But basically, my pamper time is first thing in the morning, just me, on the porch, witha cup of coffee and a cigarette. It's the only time I truly get some "me time"

2.) What is your favorite day of the week? Uh. Friday. Dan has the weekends off and no school the next day. That means semi-sleeping in! Yay!

3.) What shows are you currently obsessing over? I've only ever obsessed over two shows: "Invader Zim" and 
"Living with the Tribes". 

4.) What are you currently reading or what is the last book you finished? Stardust probably. I've read that book at least five times.

5.) What's on your Christmas wish list? I want to sleep in and stuff to make me some Tom Collins. ♥

6.) What was the highlight and the low point of your week? Respectively: I've had my sister stay with me so I can go pick up Bucket without having to drag out the kids. Beign stuck outside, walking in the freezing wind for an hour and a half.



Friday, November 19, 2010

It's Fawking Fridayyy!

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This is my first post from my computer since it's been at the new house! Yes, I have the interwebs again. We couldn't figure out for the lives of us who provided internet to this area...Other than Time Warner...And I don't really like Time Warner...But that's another blog post in of itself. So, what better way to come back than with a Fawking Friday post?

This, in case you forgot, is hosted by Jana from Boobies, Babies, and a Blog, as well as Christy from My Mad Mind.

Without further adieu...


How have I not gone completely crazy, yet?

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